While celebs such as Beyoncé, Kim Kardashian and Nicki Minaj have all been a part of changing the standards of beauty by increasing the desire for women that have bigger behinds, I’ve never based a woman’s true beauty on whether she has an apple shaped rear end or not. In fact, I’d much prefer a woman with real beauty to a woman with just a big booty any day.
Here are 5 reasons why:
1. I’ve learned that true beauty is something that actually shines from within. I’d prefer a woman who is helpful to her community, who is mothering and nurturing and puts the needs of her kids above her own. She’s raising kids who may in turn grow up to add to society.Good mothers are truly beautiful.
2. While a big booty is very nice and appealing to look at, a woman with a beautiful spirit and a beautiful mind excites me. I can appreciate a woman who brings her positive energy with her when she walks into a room. I dig a woman whose smile shines so bright that she illuminates such a beauty from within, so that heads can’t help but turn when she walks in a room.
3.Yes, Lupita N’Yong’o is a beautiful woman. She’s confident in her skin, she was confident enough to believe in herself and she was confident enough to chase her dreams while maintaining her authentic self. That type of belief and confidence cannot be bought. I love a woman who is not afraid to wear her real hair, who is not afraid to look in the mirror and be different. A woman who truly loves the skin she’s in is a beautiful woman to me.
4. A woman who is truly beautiful knows and understands that she is not perfect, yet she works on bettering herself by sharpening her mind, refining her skills and becoming a better person. She does not believe that undergoing surgery to get a bigger butt will make her beautiful. I would take a woman who knows she’s flawed and beautiful over a woman who feels like her behind is the centerpiece of everything she has going on
5. A truly beautiful woman has the power to touch people’s lives and move them in a positive direction. No matter how big a woman’s behind is, her behind cannot inspire children to reach for their goals. A beautiful woman can speak life into a dying soul. She can give hope when it’s gone. A beautiful woman will tell you that you can do all things through the power of Christ. I love a woman with a beautiful soul.